What Parents Can Do to Help Prevent Dating Abuse
2012-07-24 23:40:47


This is the VOA Special English Health Report.(1)
这是美国之音特别英语健康报告。

Today we take another look at teaching young people how to build healthy relationships. Last week we told you about a new study in the United States.(2)
今天我们看另一个教导年轻人如何建立健康的关系。上周我们告诉你在美国的一项新研究。

Fifteen percent of seventh graders in that study said they had experienced physical violence in a relationship with the opposite sex. Seventh graders are about twelve years old.(3)
15%的这项研究中七年级的学生说他们经历了暴力行为与异性的关系。七年级的学生都是十二岁左右。

Concerns about dating abuse at such a young age are leading to new programs to teach eleven to fourteen-year-olds about healthy relationships.(4)
在年轻的时候约会滥用关注领导到新程序中教十一到十四岁有关健康的关系。

The northwestern state of Idaho has had a program for the last few years called Start Strong Idaho.(5)
西北美国爱达荷州已经过去几年称为开始强爱达荷的一个程序。

Director Kelly Miller says healthy relationships depend on open, honest communication  and that starts with communication between children and parents.(6)
署长凯利 · 米勒说健康关系取决于开放、 诚实的沟通,这始儿童与家长之间的沟通。

KELLY MILLER: "We need to connect with parents so parents understand that they are critical in terms of helping young people understand healthy relationships."(7)
KELLY MILLER:我们需要要连接和父母一起,使父母明白他们是关键的帮助年轻人了解健康的关系。

Ms. Miller advises parents to talk with their children anytime they can.(8)
Miller 女士向父母与子女交谈,他们可以随时提供意见。

Parent-child communication may not always prevent an abusive relationship between teenagers or preteens. But experts say it can reduce the risk.(9)
亲子沟通不可能总是防止青少年或却辱骂关系。但专家说,它可以减少风险。

Seventy-five percent of students in the study said they talk to their parents about the issue of dating violence.(10)
75%的学生在研究中表示,他们谈到他们的父母的约会的暴力行为问题。

A good time to have a conversation about a difficult issue is during a family meal or after watching a movie or television show together.(11)
在家庭进餐时或观看的电影或电视节目在一起后的困难问题进行对话的好时机。

Kelly Miller says young people need rules and boundaries.(12)
凯利 · 米勒说: 年轻人需要规则和边界。

They also need the skills to be able to resist pressure to be on the phone all the time or to text when they should be sleeping.(13)
他们还需要的技能,以便能够顶住压力,当他们应该睡觉时将所有的时间都在电话上或文本。

The Start Strong Idaho website offers some advice.(14)
在开始强爱达荷州网站提供了一些建议。

For instance, watch out for these signs that a phone could be part of an abusive relationship: Feeling like you have to answer text messages or calls right away.(15)
例如,提防这些迹象显示手机可能被滥用的关系的一部分: 感觉像你首先要回答的文本消息或马上调用。

Feeling like the texts you receive have gone from caring to controlling. Being pressured to constantly be on your phone, even when you are with friends.(16)
感觉像您收到的案文已经从关爱到控制。迫要不断地到手机上,甚至当你在一起的朋友。

And being pressured to send sexual texts or pictures.(17)
并受到压力,要发送性文本或图片。

Kelly Miller also tells young people not to write anything on Facebook that they would not want their parents or other family members to see.(18)
凯利 · 米勒还告诉年轻人不写任何东西在他们不想他们的父母或其他家庭成员看到的 Facebook 上。

And she reminds them that there is no need to accept friend requests from strangers or to give your phone number to someone you don't know.(19)
她提醒他们有没有需要接受好友请求从陌生人或给您的电话号码给人你不知道。

Start Strong Idaho holds separate workshops for parents and teens and also brings the two groups together.(20)
开始强爱达荷州为家长和青少年持有不同的讲习班,并还汇集了两个组。

Kelly Miller says, during these meetings, families often learn things they never knew about each other.(21)
凯利 · 米勒说,在这些会议上,家庭往往学习他们永远也不知道对方的事情。

KELLY MILLER: "One mom came up and said 'I'm so thankful there was this workshop tonight because I found out my son not only was dating but currently has two girlfriends at the same time and didn’t understand the problem with that.'"(22)
KELLY MILLER:' 一个妈妈走过来,说: ' 我很感激有此研讨会今晚因为发现我的儿子不只在但当前约会在同一时间有两个女朋友,不懂的问题。 '

And that's the VOA Special English Health Report. You can read and listen to last week's program, and all of our programs for people learning English, at voaspecialenglish.com. I’m Karen Leggett.(23)
而这是美国之音特别英语健康报告。您可以阅读并学习英语,在 voaspecialenglish.com 的人听听上周的程序中,所有我们的程序。我凯伦 · 莱格特。


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